WIFE, CHILDREN AND RELATION
Generally, human being is selfish by nature. The relation is made out of selfishness only, and get dented with scarcity of it. Any boy or girl initially looks forward t what extent his/her self interest is full filled by the other if he/she seems to be incapable of fulfilling his/her self interests. The relationship based on self interest get turned into love or hatred depending upon the quality of sacrifices made. It is a bitter truth that every body satisfies his/her self interest by exploiting one another. What is necessary for life is called basic necessities, but desire for more than that is a selfish desire. Some relationship are social. Some are made out of helplessness. The relationship is maintained as long as the self interests are fulfilled. Further, by means of emotional concern, the love and dedication increases. Going further, blood relationship also turns into a self centered relationship. We want self satisfaction, and at the same time we are lazy also which becomes the cause of separation. Man is always in a illusion that through him only his ‘son’ is born. He selflessly brings him (son) up with that illusion too. Man is a media only, controlled by nature. Nature only creates creatures giving then different shapes. Nobody else does it. Our children are the apparent result of our past deeds. A person is filled with love, service mentality and with altruism, when he himself is compensated with all these, by somebody or other. He spends less in comparison to the quantity of what he receives. The other name of relationship is selfishness. Blind faith on relationship causes deception. This is wrong to conceive in mind that somebody is helping the other for shake of helping. Proper vigilance and analysis of cause is required in a relationship. We are social beings. For out needs we are dependent on others. For getting love, cooperation and respect from others, we also have to give the same to them. What you give to others, get back the same. The nature is functioned only with the ‘reverse effect’. The above explanation is true to the word for a social person.
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